Having Sex Won’t Make Him Commit

Have you ever experienced the “Push-Pull” Method

It’s when a man starts out strong by trying to say and do all the right things in a very short period of time (2 weeks).

He’ll take you out on a date or two then become distant out of nowhere, stops calling, he may text you occasionally.

He is waiting for you to push back by calling or texting him.

If you don’t push back, he pulls you back in by sending you a cute text or saying “I want to see you.”

Then you say “sure I want to see you too”, and then you try to set up a time and place but right before the scheduled time, he’ll find an excuse to cancel.

What he wants is for you to invite him over to your place with hopes of persuading you to sleep with him.

If you fall for it and sleep with him, he’ll be gone quicker than he came.

Sometimes women think having sex with a man will make him change, it can happen but most of the time it doesn’t.

Don’t set yourself up to get your feelings hurt, you are nobody’s plaything to be used and discarded.

As a woman, you have desires but can you really get pleasure from a man who tricked you because he wasn’t honest?

At first, you make think it’s okay but when he leaves he’ll take a piece of your self-esteem and that piece may affect other parts of your life.

When your self-esteem is low, you may attract men who prey on women and you don’t want that.

It may also make you start feeling sorry for yourself because he didn’t act the way you wanted him to.

Things like:

• Why doesn’t anything work out for me?
• Why didn’t he like me?
• Why is life so hard?
• Why is it so hard to get a man?

Life is all about the ENERGY you send out into the world so if you are not getting what you want to check your thoughts, that is where your answers lie.

 Rachel knows all too well what it feels like to be used and discarded.