How Do You Choose A Good Man?
Women, you do not have to settle for what you do not want, especially when it comes to Men.
Contrary to what some women believe, Good Men do exist. It’s not to say that a Good Man doesn’t make mistakes because we all make mistakes, which is a vital part of life’s journey, it is how we learn, grow, and evolve.
However, that does not mean that your standard for a man should exceed your personal standards.
If you like a man who takes care of his body then you should be taking care of yours. It’s not fair to him for you to have requirements for him that you don’t have for yourself.
If you want love, then you must already love yourself so you can share the love you have for yourself with another.
Do you have a “Man list”?
If you do, take it out and look it over; see if you want the same things you wanted when you originally wrote it.
Maybe some of those qualities have changed due to experiences and shifts in perception. If you don’t have a list, then here’s an opportunity for you to start thinking about one.
Now it’s time to ask yourself: What’s really more important for a long-term relationship: physical traits or character traits? The best thing is to make sure your list has both.
Top 10 Qualities of a Good Man:
1. Believes in Giving Back whether it’s volunteering, mentoring, and/or philanthropy.
2. Sincere about who he is and what he wants out of life. He keeps his word.
3. Has a Kind spirit; he knows how to give a kind word and love from his heart. He treats women with respect.
4. Fun and Adventurous – He takes the time to balance his life with relaxation and play and is willing to try new things. Has a sense of humor or at least something to work with.
5. Open-minded to other ideas, other cultures, and other lifestyles without making harsh judgments.
6. Passionate about life and love. Remains open to life’s surprises.
7. Ambitious. Has goals and a plan to achieve what he desires out of life.
8. Health conscious. A man who takes care of his body and health by exercising and putting good food in his body demonstrated self-love.
9. He is constantly learning new things because he knows that the world is changing rapidly so learning is a never-ending process. If he is unhappy about something, rather than complaining, he looks for solutions.
10. He loves what he does for a living, it gives him pride and he feels successful. A man that is not happy with his job will make you miserable.
The above list is in no particular order and it may differ from yours and that’s okay. Everyone is not looking for the same things but what I want to emphasize is character traits, yours and his, are most important because that is how you build a loving lasting relationship.
Relationships require work and commitment in a loving, communicative, and forgiving manner and many of us don’t know what that looks like because we haven’t seen it with our own eyes.
But the first person you must commit to is yourself; by working on yourself in order to be that healthy and happy individual to attract like energy before you became 1/2 of a whole.
The next step is for you to determine what character traits you have and if what you’re seeking in a Man is going to be compatible with what you’re offering yourself. Good luck!
