Why do men frustrate you?
In the past, men frustrated me so badly until I discovered the real source of my frustration, me. I didn’t pay attention to the signs so I made bad choices. As women, we need to know that we have the right to protect ourselves in every way. This means that we need to walk away when our instincts tell us that there is something wrong.
We definitely can’t kill them so instead we obsessed over them, why? Check out the documentary to see if you are ready for love.
Generally, because they are not doing, reacting, or acting the way you want them to. Correct? Let’s break it down a little further. He’s not doing something you asked him to do so you become frustrated.+
He’s not reacting to something that you are doing for him in the way you want him to respond so you are frustrated. He’s not treating you the way you think he should be treating you so you are frustrated.
NOTE: I have some GAME CHANGERS for you
Let me ask you this question: WHY?
- Why are you allowing him to get under your skin? In most cases, men don’t even know that you’re frustrated until one day when you go off the deep end on him.
- Now, he thinks you are crazy and wants to run in the opposite direction.
- That does not mean he will but he might be tempted because he’s probably confused about your behavior. It depends on the man and how he really feels about you.
- Did you pay attention to the ‘real’, let me write it again: it depends on how the man REALLY feels about you. Don’t get me wrong, men are very confusing at times, it can feel like they were put on this planet to drive women crazy.
See some women, to be honest, most women see things differently than men, so while you may think he REALLY cares about you. He may be in it for sex, money, a place to live or he doesn’t like being alone but NOT FOR LOVE.
This is a hard pill to swallow because we all have perceptions of ourselves and how fabulous we think we are, even though most of us have had or currently have bouts of low self-esteem.
In the past, I’ve been frustrated by a number of men so I know how you feel. However, I no longer blame them for my frustration. Why? Because I made a choice to stop dealing with men that I know would frustrate me. If women pay attention, men give us signs early on that they’re going to be a problem.
Ladies, be honest, you can tell the moment you meet that certain type of guy, that if you mess with him, he will drive you crazy. Let’s leave out the men in their 20’s because in some cases they are not purposely trying to irritate the crap out of you; they’re just trying to get all they can as fast as they can.
I’m sure there are a lot of things that frustrate you because you can
t control them. So instead of getting frustrated because of your inability to control or CHANGE a man, just either accept him as he is or rejects him and find another.
There is a possible third option: try to communicate differently. Men are definitely different than women so they interpret things differently. Remember your lessons from past dating experiences.
So communicate your wants and needs clearly then let him tell you how he sees things and tries to meet in the middle. At the end of the day, you can only CONTROL yourself so if you realize that, you will have less frustration in your life.
