HOW’S YOUR ATTITUDE?

The road to attracting love can be a rocky one and it starts with you: your issues, your beliefs, your perceptions, your anger, your resentments, your STUFF.

All of these things create blocks to attracting the person you deep down know you deserve. Some of you might be thinking, it’s not me it’s the men I meet. But ask yourself the following questions:

1. Are you approachable or do you have an angry look on your face?

2. Are you still angry at your ex for hurting you?

3. Are you hard on Men, do have standards for them that you don’t have for yourself?

4. Are looking for ways to destress your life that will help your attitude?

Most of the time, we are experts at hiding the truth from ourselves, not wanting to hear what we need to do in order to move out of the places where we get stuck.

We have to take the time to look at ourselves honestly, not to criticize ourselves but to connect to who we are, and what we want. and how to get it.

Write down the LIFE LESSONS you remember to see if you are repeating them.

If your attitude is the problem becoming aware of it is a good thing. Why? Because if you don’t know what issues are holding you back, how are you going to get what you want?

If you don’t know what kind of vibe you’re putting out there, how are you going to change it?

• Attitude is everything! It dictates how people perceive you, including men.
• Another area where many of our attitudes need work is how will feel about ourselves.
• If you have low self-esteem and low self-confidence, you will make decisions that are not in your best interest.
• Start paying attention to the things you say and do, it will help you discover the real you.

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Here’s a quick exercise: take a moment and ponder a persistent block you’re having in finding a good relationship, or ask yourself a question. For example: What do I need from a relationship? Avoid forcing the answer or assuming you know, Just let it bubble up from inside. Take the first answer you hear. Trust your instincts!

You may be surprised or even angry at what you get. That’s okay. Remember that we hide the truth from ourselves and think we have it all figured out. We don’t. You can deny what you’ve heard; however, it won’t change the fact that you heard it.

So it’s time to ask yourself: is it your attitude? Once you decide to listen to your inner wisdom, you will be amazed at how your outside world changes. No one else has the answers except you. The more you do the exercise, the more you will discover, and the more your life will change for the better. Be consistent. Be honest. Be better.