We live in a society that sometimes points fingers at external forces instead of evaluating the part that everyone plays in any given situation.
Self-Evaluation is necessary because you always need to be aware of the choices you’ve made and are making that are creating what you do not want in your life.
Why Evaluate yourself?
- Take a look at your choices so you won’t make the same ones if your life isn’t going the way you want it to.
- To figure out what you want if you are unhappy,
- To figure out what habits you have that are not serving you.
This is a challenge because you may discover things you do not like about yourself and or that you may not be as smart or savvy as you think. Several years ago, I recognized that my intelligence was limited and that I was looking at the world through a peephole.
That peephole kept me from changing, growing, and creating the life I said I wanted to live.
When I realized I had a lot to learn and still do, it started me on a new path of reading and studying, which continues to this day. We all can live a hundred years and still would not know everything there is to know about this vast world we live in.
So until you are able to look at yourself in the mirror and see the real you, not the picture you have painted for the world, nothing can change. Mirrors are really powerful.
Your reflection is only seen by you; while others can see you just by looking at you, only in a mirror can you see yourself. If you look closely into your eyes, which truly is the pathway to your soul. And if your eyes are not smiling back at you, you have some work to do. If you don’t take the time to know who you are, how are you going to build the most important relationship you will ever have the one with yourself.
Inside of your journal you can write things that you dare not talk about with others and it can help you find the strength to talk about them so you can release them and move on. Sometimes as women, we like to hold on to things because we think that gives us strength but it’s quite the opposite. It weakens us and those around us because we cannot be truly happy carrying around pain from the past.
Most of the time, we don’t like to deal with things so we ignore them, hoping they will just go away. Unfortunately, Universal Energy does not work that way, instead, what you ignore just becomes a bigger problem.
So I say let’s deal with things while they are small problems and then we can move on but you have to be aware of what those small problems are.
Our lives are busy, but they become overwhelming when you are hit with surprises that you are not ready for; because you didn’t deal with those small problems when you should have.
So now is the time to get to work on things, it’s important, you have 20 minutes a day to build a relationship with yourself so you can take care of those small problems.
Like getting rid of some of that negativity in your life so you can have a more positive flow and peaceful energy. In this Printable Digital Journal, there is space provided to write your answers after you print them, and write on them, then you can destroy the physical copy if you are worried about others reading it. Also, if you already have a Journal you can use that as well.
It’s your life why not make it the way you want it to be!
Inside of Love, Forgiveness, Career, Happiness: 12 Step Journey to Creating an Amazing Life there is a section on how to build a relationship with yourself
