Is Being Ready To Date A Process?
If you are NOT ready to date you are not alone, there are various reasons why Women put off dating for later.
The other question is are you even trying to prepare or are you using excuses for why this is not a good time?
Take a good look in the mirror and ask yourself why aren’t you REALLY not ready.
Top reasons why women say they are not ready to date.
- Need to get my life in order.
- Need to lose some weight
- Too busy to date
- Just got out of a relationship ( for some that could be 3 years or more)
- It’s too much work
- There are NO good men out there
- Most relationships don’t work out
- I’m too PICKY
If you add all of these up they equal some total of fear.
Fear Facts:
- Fear of rejection
- Fear of picking the wrong man again
- Fear of losing control
- Fear of being controlled
- Fear of failure
- Fear of dying alone
Some are afraid of being cheated on and that is a real fear but there is a lot of uncertainty in the world.
Check out the video below to see how Rachel deals with her cheating boyfriend.
Here is the problem if you don’t deal with your fears they may consume you and the greatest fear that many of us have, which is the fear of dying alone will come true.
The other problem is time keeps passing so why you are using all of these excuses or just one, you are getting older by the second and that clock will never stop moving except for when your time is up.
So ask yourself this question.
- Do you really want to spend this Journey alone and sit on the sidelines watching others enjoy life with their significant other?
- If the answer is “no” then it’s time to STAND UP for your life.
- If the answer is “yes” then I hope you can find the joy you need in other things and there is nothing wrong with that if that’s what you REALLY want.
It is true that all relationships do not work out, but when that happens, you brush yourself off, take a breather and get back on the horse. If you are frustrated with your dating life and need help click here
There are 12 Game Changers that will help you
- Learn more about yourself.
- Figure out what’s been getting in the way of you finding love.
- Stop letting Men make you feel miserable.
- Using your listening skills to determine if he’s right for you
- Learn how to receive from Men
Live the life you DESERVE today! Don’t wait only you have the power to change your life.
