Treat People With Kindness
Treat people with kindness is not a hard thing to accomplish. What is the point of being mean and nasty to others? Life is all about energy and sending out bad energy can come back around.
Here are 25 ways to treat people with kindness:
1. Smile
You would be amazed how just smiling and greeting people warmly could make their day.
2. Say “please” and “thank you” often.
Being respectful and showing gratitude are always welcomed by others.
3. Listen attentively
If you are having a conversation, and actively listening it’s not to comment or give advice but to understand. The person sharing wants to be heard and vent frustrations, or share some good news. Being present and listening to what others have to say makes them feel respected.
4. Be patient and understanding
We never know what is going on in someone else life. So being patient and understanding is especially important when others are struggling.
Offer sincere compliments and praise.
Treat people with kindness also means complementing them when you genuinely like something they do, say, or wear.
5. Hold doors open for others.
It is rude to close doors in other people’s faces if you are aware they are behind you. Holding a door takes a second of your time but could put a smile on someone’s face.
6. Offer to help when someone is in need.
Help can come in the form of problem-solving, letting someone use your phone, or calling emergency services.
7. Share your time and resources with others.
Help does not have to big amount of time or money, but even the small things help someone greatly.
8. Show empathy and compassion towards others.
This is a small gesture but it means a lot to a person who is having a hard time.
9. Show interest in others’ lives and experiences.
Don’t be self-centered and make everything about you. Friendships are built on others feeling comfortable sharing their lives and experiences with you.
10. Celebrate others’ successes and accomplishments.
Being happy for others is an important part of personal growth. It also brings good energy and appreciation into your life.
11. Avoid gossip and negative talk about others.
This leads to hurt feelings especially when people find out you’ve been talking behind their backs and it can lead to messy situations.
12. Be respectful of others’ opinions and beliefs.
If you disagree with someone’s opinion does not mean you can’t respect it. As humans, we all have various beliefs and opinions based on our unique life journeys. So listens to learn about how others live even if you believe something different.
13. Apologize when you make a mistake or hurt someone’s feelings.
To apologize is to take responsibility for your actions, and to acknowledge that you hurt someone’s feelings.
14. Treat everyone equally and with respect, regardless of their background or status.
Learn to accept people’s differences that is what makes all unique and special.
15. Offer words of encouragement and support.
Everyone likes to be encouraged especially when they are doing something outside their comfort zone. Being supportive of your friends and family is always appreciated.
16. Avoid interrupting others when they are speaking.
Sometimes this can be hard especially if there is a pause in the conversation. But, letting someone finish is a sign of respect.
17. Be inclusive and welcoming towards everyone.
Including everyone regardless of background and preferences should be common practice. Remember, how other people decide to live their life does not affect you.
18. Be reliable and follow through on your commitments.
This gives you a good reputation and people will want to work with you, and recommend you.
19. Offer to share your skills or knowledge with others.
Teaching or sharing your knowledge will help others succeed and make you feel good as well.
20. Show gratitude towards others.
Everyone wants to feel appreciated.
21. Be kind to yourself, as this can help you be kind to others.
Sometimes, you may not realize that you are not kind to yourself. When think or talk negatively about yourself that is not being kind. If you have made mistakes that you are punishing yourself, for now, is a good time to stop that behavior.
22. Avoid judging others and instead practice empathy and understanding.
Avoid judging others because you don’t want to be judged for your looks, clothing, religion, etc.
Showing people kindness is not hard and brings good energy into life. So, pay attention to how you treat others and yourself.