How Well Do You Know Yourself?
Take the ATTITUDE Test:
- Do you yell or put down children for making mistakes like dropping something?
- Do you constantly talk behind people’s backs?
- Do you make fun of people who you think you are better than?
- Do you have confrontations with people when you can’t get your way?
- Do you push away men who don’t drive nice cars or make enough money for you?
- Do you date other women’s men but get mad when you find out your man is cheating on you?
- Do you make mean comments to people just because you can?
- Do you date guys you know have issues ( no car, no money) and then throw the issues back in their faces when you’re angry?
- Do you constantly keep people waiting for you to get ready to go somewhere?
- Do you sleep with men you don’t really know but get mad when they don’t call you anymore?
- Do you show up late for work, or are always on your phone at work, or don’t do your job but get mad when you get fired?
If you answer “yes” to any of the above questions, it may be time to spend some time with yourself to figure out why you treat others the way you do.
The Law of Karma says “as you sow, so shall you reap“. Basically, whatever you do to others will come back to you and in most cases, you will suffer more than the person you inflicted pain upon.
When you yell, beat or call children nasty names, you damage their self-esteem and self-confidence.
If you want a better love life or just a better life overall, it starts with you.
Your Attitude, you wear it like a glove, and it can age you as well because making mean and nasty faces when you’re always upset will leave its mark over time.
Things To Consider:
- Does your anger makes sense in any given situation or are you overreacting
- What are you really mad about, sometimes we take our frustration out on children especially when we are mad at ourselves for the choices we’ve made.
- If you don’t have respect for the man you are in a relationship with then why are you with him? If he’s not right for you or if he’s not treating you right is it his fault that you’re unhappy, don’t you have other choices you can make?
- Being angry and lashing out at others takes away your POWER most people think it gives them POWER. Instead, that moment is remembered by the person that receives your words/hands and at some point when you need them the most they might not be there.
- If you have been alone for years and wonder why men don’t look at you, speak to you or try to get to know you, maybe it’s the look you’ve been wearing and the energy you’ve been expressing.
- If you are married and you wonder why your husband barely touches you or works all the time or never really smiles. Do you smile, do you complain, do you nag, do you argue?
When dealing with a man, you have to decide whether to accept him for who he is or reject him for who he’s not. But, nagging and always arguing is too stressful and terrible for intimacy. Some of us are mad at a man who hurt us long ago (father, first love, ex-husband) but we are taking it out on the man that we are with now.
Sometimes with life and love, you need help to see what you can not see and that changes everything.
