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Low-Key First Date Ideas

These Low-Key First date ideas will kick off a possible new relationship. Going on a first date can be exciting, but it can also be nerve-wracking trying to decide what to do. Everyone can use a little help.

This is a long list of first date ideas so if you are not sure ask the person some leading questions to help you decide.

For example:

Best childhood memory
What have you always wanted to do but haven’t done it yet?
Do you prefer nature or water?
Do you have any hobbies?
Are you open to new experiences?
Are you a gamer?

First Date Ideas

33 Low-Key First Date Ideas to Consider

1. Meet for coffee

A classic first date option that allows you to get to know each other in a relaxed setting.
The other thing about a coffee date is that it is easy to leave if you are not that into the person.

2. Go for a walk

Take a stroll through a park or around your neighborhood and chat while enjoying the outdoors.
This is a good conversation starter if want to know if the person likes outdoor activities or exercising.

3. Outdoor vendor or food truck for a snack

This allows you to see if you have similar eating habits.
There are a lot of different types of diets and if you are a foodie and the other person may not be.

4. Meet on Zoom

The pandemic taught us we can get to know people online before we spend time or money.
You can enjoy a meal together while you talk about an array of topics each in the comfort of your home.

5. Take your dogs on a walk

This first-date idea only works if you both have a dog.

6. Take a cooking class

Learn how to cook something new together while getting to know each other.
This sets up the idea that a relationship is a partnership and that doing things together is fun.

7. Play a game

Challenge each other to a game of mini-golf, bowling, or even an escape room.
Go to adult-only arcade spots.

8. Go to a comedy show

Laughter is a great way to break the ice and enjoy a fun night out.
This will also let you know if the person has a sense of humor especially if that is one on your list.

9. Volunteer together

Do something good for the community and get to know each other while volunteering.
Also, this activity will let us know if the person is willing to try new things.

10. Attend a sporting event

If you both love sports, attend a game or match together.
But, go in separate cars because if the date is not going well, you can escape.

11. Attend an open mic night

Where you can listen to some good poetry or singing.

11. Go to a wine or beer tasting

If you both enjoy drinking, attend a wine or beer tasting and learn something new.

12. Take a dance class

Learn a new style of dance together while getting to know each other.

13. Attend a book club

If you both love reading, attend a book club meeting together.

Visit an animal shelter: Spend time with some furry friends and see if you both share a love of animals.

14. Go on a hike

Get some exercise and enjoy the great outdoors while getting to know each other.

15. Go to a Flea Market

If you both have a taste for the vintage item then you can bond over the past.

16. Attend a cooking competition

If you both enjoy cooking, attend a cooking competition or food festival.

17. Visit a botanical garden

Enjoy the beauty of nature and have a relaxing day exploring a botanical garden.

18. Ride the subway or trolley around the city

It will help you both see your city in a whole new way.

19. Go dancing

If you both love to dance, attend a dance party or nightclub together.

20. Go to a fair or carnival

Enjoy the bad junk food, rides, and attractions while getting to know each other.

21. Meet for dessert

Most people like a sweet treat.
If the date is going well, it’s a good excuse to go for a walk afterward to burn off some sugar.

22. Go on a bike ride

Explore your city on two wheels and enjoy a fun, active day out.

23. Watch a movie at a cemetery, drive-in, rooftop, or park

A lot of cities offer movies in different places during the summer.
During the winter months, there are dinner theaters if you don’t mind spending a little cash.

24. Attend an outdoor concert in the park

You can bring food and enjoy each other’s company while listening to music.

25. Go to a karaoke bar

Sing your hearts out and enjoy a fun night of entertainment together.

26. Play a video game online

If you are both playing at your homes, it does not matter if you can play or not.
You can also play for hours, and take food breaks as you get to know each other through play.

27. Kayaking in the local river

If you share a kayak it will be a lot more fun, especially if takes a while to find your row rhythm.

28. Try horseback riding

This experience can open your mind to trying new things.

29. Go to a pond and fish

Fishing is a relaxing way to get to know each other while being surrounded by nature.

30. Take a boat trip around the harbor

If neither of you has problems with seasickness this is a good way to feel the open water for a short duration of time.

31. Whale watching

If you like the sea this is a great way to connect with sea life and feel the wind in your hair.

32. Puzzle in the park

Putting together a puzzle in the park is fun and will help the two of you focus on the moment.
Bring food so the date will not be distracted by hunger.

33. Art gallery tour

Most cities have a section that in the art district where there are a lot of little galleries to explore.

In Conclusion

These low-key first date ideas are designed to get to know each other while doing fun and different things. I don’t advocate going to someone’s home you don’t know on the first date, that is why none of the first-date ideas suggest that.